First Love

Hello, readers...I bet when you read the title of my entry, someone special from your past will appear in your mind. It doesn't matter whether he/she was your first crush in primary school or someone from your neighborhood whom you admire in your teenage years. They said first love will remain forever in our heart. Some of us experienced the first love in the early age and the lucky ones will last forever as husband and wife. Nevertheless, some of us ended up with tearful break ups and horrible pain. 

It's really hard actually to forget someone who you thought will be the one spending the entire life together with you until the very end. However, cheer up, dear friends because right now I will give you the most effective ways to forget about your first love. Here are the tips :

1. Cry. It's okay to cry. Just let it all out. Scientist had proven that crying releases hormones called endorphins that acts as painkillers for your body. Furthermore, crying also flushes away a number of harmful toxins existing in your body.

2.  Cut off all communication with your ex. This maybe the most agony way to forget someone whom you used to talk with every single day but believe it or not, you will get better day by day.

3. Your family and friends are the best person to spend the time with at this difficult moments. You can share and open up about your feeling with them and you can also ask for some advice and comfort. 

4. Do not try to find out how your ex is doing if you are in the healing process. Don't ever try to check his/her Facebook status every single day because it will only make you feel worse when you see he/she is doing completely fine without you.

5. Be strong and keep telling yourself that when someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive. Someone who is much better than your ex and what is the most important, don't afraid to fall in love again or else you won't get married until you die. :)

"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world." - Lucille Désirée Ball